Caitlin Freeman-- my guest in this month’s “A Uterus Is a Feature Not a Bug” podcast--  met her husband James Freeman in next door stalls at the Berkeley farmer’s market.

He was obsessive about how to create a perfect cup of coffee. She was obsessive about baking cakes with all natural, organic ingredients that could double as works of art.

They both worked so many hours on these obsessions, they wrecked the existing relationships they were in, and wound up together, in love, in incredibly persnickety, precise, foodie, power-couple heaven...